Need advice about love, relationships, and etc

[Gaijin]

Doctor D is in the house ! no but serious if need any help  ill see what i can do to give the best possible advice

[Ryu # 20]

Why don't you check out this topic? There's a piece of work there!

http://www.infinitymugenteam.com/Forum_345/index.php?topic=8437.0

[Gaijin]

well that is quite interesting i have to say. there isnt a problem on your side but i would have to say that the problem rest on her side. i believe that something in her past has gotten to her. maybe the girl has had some guy issues in the past that cause her to push other guys away. obviously she doesnt want to be in a relationship because maybe some guy who she had trusted got in real close and turned her world upside down then hurt her or maybe it could be a family issue (mom and dad fighting). maybe at this point she just wants a friend and not someone whos trying to get closer to her in that way because that means that at som point you might want a relationship and she could be afraid of it so it makes her mad that you like because of the fact that all she wants is a friend. like you said when someone told her that you like her she all of a suden treated you like she was treating all the other guys. if you really want her then dont give up and show how you feel no mater how many times she may push away but remember dont push too hard. next time you see her try to talk to her anyway. or maybe someone might have added a lil onto the story of you liking her. remember you never know when a beautiful is involved. overall the only solution i can come up with is (if you want her) go after her and push her a lil bit but dont push too hard and let her know how you feel. dont apologize to her for liking her. you dont have to apologize at all. try and be a friend to her like u used to be before she wwent mental on you

[Ryu # 20]

I guess I have pushed too hard with all the messages 'cause there's really no turning back. And now remember a whole lot of time has passed so I guess I just have to move on.

[Gaijin]

yeah sometimes you do have to just move on. i know how hard that is but if hey who knows sometime in the future the two fo you may just meet up and actually talk again. i had that same problem because it took me so long to move on but when i did we ended up meeting up at the exact moment i didnt think we would and now we are together and closer than ever before. but yeah sometimes you just got to let go no matter how hard. life is funny cuz whats there may leave in a second only to come back in another second

[Ryu # 20]

I however would like to find out WHY THE F*CK SHE HATES ME. I think it is because I liked her.

[Misogi]

Thats why i dont love Anyone

[Gaijin]

yeah thats wat i was saying that it maybe because you liked her and she didnt want anyone to like her. because u know how complicated things get when two ppl start liking each other and what happens when either of u hurt each other even if by accident

[Ryu # 20]

She never really liked me, say I was one of the few she could "tolerate". And I can swear I did nothing to hurt her - either inadvertently or on purpose. But she still reacted like that.

[Gaijin]

well the only thing i can say is that everything she did she did for a reason. what reason that is I cant say for sure because I dont know the girl. I guess you should just let it go