So I dumped my girlfriend...

[Violent Ken Masters]

Things weren't going too well. It's always on and off the past 2 years. Perhaps the problem was that I pushed myself in the relationship too hard, or she was trying to change me into something that I'm not. I just don't know anymore. My heart aches, but I know I can't go back. She doesn't even have a mind of her own anymore. She's always getting brainwashed by her "friends". Whatever, they're total strangers who don't even know me.

This is how it has to be. I'm better off not dragging anyone into my life anyways.

[Acey]

Amen!

Find someone who loves you for who you are and who makes you want to be a better person. Your entire life is right in front of you.

[EXCh33ky]

I feel your pain man

[Tundra]

Better you doing the dumping then to get dumped. PLAYA's CODE.

[Vault-tec Rep Høröúßøí]

Better you doing the dumping then to get dumped. PLAYA's CODE.

spoken like a pimp

[ItalianStallion]

Amen!

Find someone who loves you for who you are and who makes you want to be a better person. Your entire life is right in front of you.

[SPOOKY77]

I wouldnt ever be with someone that I cant be myself around..Im very lucky to have found somebody that not only lets me be who I am but she is really my best friend... sorry for the sap bro but its def possible to find someone like that

[Spidermew]

No one needs a brainwashed monkey who keeps trying to change you to fit them.
Good for you man!

 

[Tundra]

Better you doing the dumping then to get dumped. PLAYA's CODE.

spoken like a pimp

Im not a pimp, Im a Playa From Da Himalaya's

[George Costanza]

i know i should be the last person giving advice but

u should really date around b4 u settle down so u can get the type of idea on what kinda different girls are out there and u can deal with problems more better and u wont be a stranger to them


but dude go to a club no need to be all sad

Don't frown because it's over smile because it happened <3

[Vault-tec Rep Høröúßøí]

Better you doing the dumping then to get dumped. PLAYA's CODE.

spoken like a pimp

Im not a pimp, Im a Playa From Da Himalaya's

your from the Himalaya's 

[Violent Ken Masters]

i know i should be the last person giving advice but

u should really date around b4 u settle down so u can get the type of idea on what kinda different girls are out there and u can deal with problems more better and u wont be a stranger to them


but dude go to a club no need to be all sad

Don't frown because it's over smile because it happened <3

I was in the relationship for 3-4 years.

When her and I got together, she was completely different, her life goals, her values... Everything was different back then.
within the last 2 years we had arguments, and each of them kept getting worse, and if I were to continue, it would drive me insane.
 
In one day, 3-4 years amounted to nothing. It might sound selfish, but I can't afford to spend time on anyone else, and end up seeing it wasted just because the girl had a change of heart, or whatever the hell it was that changed. 
From now on, I live only for myself.

[George Costanza]

i know i should be the last person giving advice but

u should really date around b4 u settle down so u can get the type of idea on what kinda different girls are out there and u can deal with problems more better and u wont be a stranger to them


but dude go to a club no need to be all sad

Don't frown because it's over smile because it happened <3

I was in the relationship for 3-4 years.

When her and I got together, she was completely different, her life goals, her values... Everything was different back then.
within the last 2 years we had arguments, and each of them kept getting worse, and if I were to continue, it would drive me insane.
 
In one day, 3-4 years amounted to nothing. It might sound selfish, but I can't afford to spend time on anyone else, and end up seeing it wasted just because the girl had a change of heart, or whatever the hell it was that changed. 
From now on, I live only for myself.

Hmmm you know maybe its cuz well one day i dated a chick for a year and i wanted to start seeing other people but 3 years wow thats along time

i guess things start to change after a while and ur partner have to adjust to new adaptations on how out looks and big changes go

but u get huge props for making it to 3 years

but dont shut ur self completely down because you miss the opportunity to find what your truly looking for   

[DARKTALBAIN]

i know i should be the last person giving advice but

u should really date around b4 u settle down so u can get the type of idea on what kinda different girls are out there and u can deal with problems more better and u wont be a stranger to them


but dude go to a club no need to be all sad

Don't frown because it's over smile because it happened <3

I was in the relationship for 3-4 years.

When her and I got together, she was completely different, her life goals, her values... Everything was different back then.
within the last 2 years we had arguments, and each of them kept getting worse, and if I were to continue, it would drive me insane.
 
In one day, 3-4 years amounted to nothing. It might sound selfish, but I can't afford to spend time on anyone else, and end up seeing it wasted just because the girl had a change of heart, or whatever the hell it was that changed. 
From now on, I live only for myself.

I'm in the same situation . I feel I wasted 8 years of my life . My girl changed so much , & hates all my hobbies now . I guess she wants her to be my only hobby . I've been tossing this around for awhile now what to do .

[Nutty-Da-Kid]

Things weren't going too well. It's always on and off the past 2 years. Perhaps the problem was that I pushed myself in the relationship too hard, or she was trying to change me into something that I'm not. I just don't know anymore. My heart aches, but I know I can't go back. She doesn't even have a mind of her own anymore. She's always getting brainwashed by her "friends". Whatever, they're total strangers who don't even know me.

This is how it has to be. I'm better off not dragging anyone into my life anyways.

  Round of aplause cuz man i wouldnt take dat crap either  i mean i hate girls dat f**k*** listen to there friends over their own man and most of da time their friends are just haters who dont want to see u happy ur better off wit a ride or die chick.

[b.easy]

good for you bro. I've been in a relationship with a psycho girl with annoying friends for around the same amount of time and I think of leaving all the time. But then again, she's the tire-slashing type..

But really man, there's so many other fish in the sea. get out there and land the big one. 

[Gaijin]

wow i relate 100 percent to this story but listen from experience , dont count finding someone out of the picture. I went on and off for about 5 years and man girls change . Last thing i heard she has gotten into girls and became bi and shes doing all kinds of stuff. Now im not really trying to look unless its sumone special like well just sumone ill leave it at that.

[Lightblackheart]

Things weren't going too well. It's always on and off the past 2 years. Perhaps the problem was that I pushed myself in the relationship too hard, or she was trying to change me into something that I'm not. I just don't know anymore. My heart aches, but I know I can't go back. She doesn't even have a mind of her own anymore. She's always getting brainwashed by her "friends". Whatever, they're total strangers who don't even know me.

This is how it has to be. I'm better off not dragging anyone into my life anyways.

You have done what you had to do.there are too many chicks around,so your life is not fu***d up .But,the only thing i am sure right now,is,that you may Miss her . Hope you get over all this predicament and your live get better,LBH